What Women Really Want
Subject: What Women Really Want
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Issue #5: What Women Really Want
Coaching Moment
How-To Tip
Never Stop Growing
Winning my daughters heart
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What Women Really Want

For most guys, a nice juicy steak, cold drinks and a great game on TV
is enough to bring us to a state of contentment. It's not that much, really. But for women? We watch that Mel Gibson movie where he can hear what women are thinking and think that superpower is way better than anything the Incredible Hulk has. If only we knew! More on that later.

In last week's newsletter, I mentioned that many women try to turn their husbands into the dads they never had. In this week's edition, I'll address how to prevent your daughter from eventually becoming one of those women in the closing word. We'll also give you some great suggestions to connect with your kids this summer, especially if you're opting for the now ever-popular "stay-cation", and hear from one dad who called out his daughter to be a woman.

If you like this newsletter, be sure to forward it on to other dads who would be encouraged by its contents. Our mission is to speak life into men again and help them catch the Smile over their lives so they can make a difference with their kids and the orphans they meet.
Coaching Moment:  How to Treat a Girl

Youtube_foundation In this Coaching Moments video, Ed McGlasson explains how fathers can win the hearts of their daughters and help prepare the way for them to become a woman.
How To Tips

Making Lasting Memories

Know: One of the keys to good fathering is always looking for everyday moments to teach your kids lasting lessons. It's always helpful to create some of those teachable moments as well. This summer, if you've made the economic decision as a family to spend your week or two off in town, take advantage of the opportunity to make create some memorable moments.

Learn: Ephesians 6:4
says, "Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." (NIV)

Do: Take at least one day where you go and serve others with your kids. Teach them the lasting value of being a servant and what that means in the Kingdom. Serve lunch at a soup kitchen or find out if some elderly people in your church or neighborhood need help with their yard work--and do it together. It'll make a great memory about that summer you opted out of the trip to the beach a pleasant and powerful one.
Tale of the Tape

Here's a powerful story a dad shared with me about how he called out his daughter to be a woman after attending one of The Blessing of the Father conferences:

Ed,

I just wanted to drop you a note and say "thank you" for your willingness to serve God and your faithful message. I must say that I have been a Christian for many years and have never experienced anything like that weekend. It was truly a life changing experience.

I also wanted to share my "calling out" my daughter story. My daughter is 17 and is going to graduate this year and will be going to college this fall. My heart was smitten when you shared the experience you had with your daughter so much that I did almost the same thing. I went and purchased a nice diamond ring for her and I ask Rebecca to go to dinner with me the night before I went on another business trip. She was surprised yet anxious about the dinner but thought that maybe because I have been traveling so much that I just wanted to spend sometime with her.

So I took her to her favorite restaurant the Olive Garden. When we were seated and had ordered our meal she asked, "So, what did I do?" I told her the reason I wanted to have this time with her was to let her know how much I love her and how proud I am of her. She and I both had to take some deep breaths at that time as we both had tears in our eyes. I then went on as best I could struggling to get some of the words out about her many assets and accomplishments that I was so proud of. Then I stood up and got down on one knee and pulled out the ring and when she saw it I must say her expression was that of pure joy. She began to cry and I looked her in the eye and said, "Rebecca, I would like to ask you if you would enter into a promise covenant with me, and accept this ring as a token of our covenant and that this ring will be given to the man that you and I agree before God is worthy to receive it on your wedding night. Today, Rebecca, I call you to be a woman and I will treat you as one from this day forward."

She was so excited and we both hugged and tried to hold back the tears, but I really didn't care who was around because at that moment nothing else mattered.

Winning My Daughters Heart
 
Is there anything more formidable for a man than trying to reach the heart of a woman?  I like many of you have searched for the key to reach the heart of my girls.  Some days, it seems like I am hitting it out of the park, while other days I can even find ball park. :-(

jillandethanWhen my daughters were in their first years, I stumbled on a secret, or should I say a question. It came to me on a day while Jessica and Mary were dancing a rock and trying to turn my eyes away from my work to see their performance. Upon every look in their direction I was met with the biggest smile a daddy could ever dream of. 

I asked the Lord the question, "What do woman want and why are girls so confusing!"  My exasperation was answered with a secret that opened my heart.  He spoke to my heart and said, "Ed, every girl is born with a question inside her heart, Daddy do you see me, am I someone beautiful to behold?"

I learned that the most important thing a dad can do is to give myself to answering that question and building emotional security for his daughters. My wife asks that same question every time she gets ready and asks me, "which earrings, or which shoes, or...?  You know the drill.  I have found her question has little to do with the accessories she is modeling and more to do with the intensity of my gaze towards her. She is asking a similar question,   "Do you see me Ed, am I still beautiful to you? Beautiful enough to date?"

Men a word of advice here, don't say, "It doesn't matter honey, just get in the car we are late"  Ouch...

Instead step back and gaze again at the one who got you to say 'I DO.'  You might be a look away from a new beginning.

With your daughters, give them some time every week.  When they capture your eyes, they will open their hearts.  Here is  a truth that has taken me years to understand.  You can't lead a girl, if you don't have their heart.  Some of you need some date time, and some long looks.... More next week. 


In His Smile,
 
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Ed Tandy McGlasson
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