Committed the Fatherhood
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Issue #2: Committed Fatherhood
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If you're in SoCal, come join us this Sunday at  10am. Ed is going to be speaking on:

"The Blessing of the Father"

How do you catch the blessing that your father did not know how to give you?

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As Father's Day approaches this weekend, it's a time of joy for some and regret for others. What I've discovered as I've traveled across the country speaking to men about the issues of fatherhood is that it's never too late to make a difference. No matter how long you've been absent from the lives of your children, you should never write off your kids, resigning yourself to believe that they never want anything to do with you.

In this newsletter, we've got some practical tips for you as well as a look at the inspiring relationship between future baseball Hall of Famer Chipper Jones and his father, Larry. We even managed to talk with Chipper and get him to share with us what's so special about his dad -- and what he's learned in his own fathering experience.

If you like this newsletter, be sure to forward it on to other dads who would be encouraged by its contents. We are committed to helping fathers around the world to being better dads and raising kids who catch God's smile over their lives.
Coaching Moment: What Does GodEd Video Really Think about Me?

In this Coaching Moment video, Ed McGlasson explains what God really thinks about us and the importance of conveying this to our kids.

How To Tips

The Art of Listening

Know: It's easy to get so busy with life that we don't take the time to sit down and heart the hearts of our children. But kids are longing to connect with their dads and share their dreams, especially if you are supportive of what your kids feel like God placed in their heart to do with their lives.

Learn:
Mark 1:11 says, "And a voice came from heaven: 'You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.'" (TNIV)

Do: Schedule an afternoon or some time during the weekend where you can spend some one-on-one time with your kids and ask them what their grandest dream is in life. Follow up by asking how you can help and commit yourself to helping them achieve that dream. Here is a question that has opened my childrens heart for what is possible.

"How do you want me to support you and be your dad right now?"  When my kids know that I there for them, it gives them courage to step out and begin to believe. I have watched the fire in their eyes begin to glow, as they process: "my dad believes in me and wants to serve me." 
Tale of the Tape

All-Star Chipper Jones talks about his special dad

Chipper JonesWe've all heard the saying, "Behind every great man is an even greater woman." And we all know that's true. But I also believe behind every great son is an even greater father or father figure who understood what greatness really is.

This week's inspiring dad is Larry Jones Sr., whose son you might know: Chipper Jones, the slugging switch-hitting third baseman for the Atlanta Braves.

This story in USA Today is a great portrait of a dad understanding the cost of commitment for his son's dream and conveying that to his son in a way that wasn't pushy but challenging. It's evident that their relationship is something special.

We also like to hear the son's perspective to. So, thanks to Braves correspondent Patty Rasmusen who tracked down the switch-hitting third baseman, Chipper shared about his dad and his own experiences in fatherhood:

I consider my dad my best friend. I have guys my own age who are good friends, but I haven't known anyone longer than Dad and I don't get into detail about my professional and personal life with anyone else but him. He's the guy that's responsible for not only bringing me into this world but responsible for getting me to where I am in this world. We were talking last night on the ride home and he was telling me how proud he was of me, here on the cusp of achieving 400 homers. He was talking about who I'd tied and who I'd passed and who was next and I started to get a little chill bumps myself. I think back on all the days when we didn't have anything else to do and we went to the ballpark to work on the game and now it's all paying off.

My appreciation for my dad grew after I became a dad myself because he's the only example I have to fall back on.  All the lessons that he taught me, I'm trying to teach my kids.  There's a country song that says something like, 'If I'm half the dad he is, that's all I have to be.' I can't imagine being any better than he is and I know I won't be because of my career taking me away so much. It just makes me cherish when I do get the time to interact and do things with my sons, to be the father figure. Last night is a perfect example, my son (Trey) brought home all A's and B's on his report card and sitting him down and looking him in the eye to tell him, 'Man I am so proud of you.'  Encouraging him to keep it up, rewarding him, and letting him know that good deeds by him are appreciated by his parents. Little things like that are the things my dad and mom did for me.
"To Be a great Dad, you need one"

Ed's GirlsIs there anything more powerful than a man who has learned to give his life away to his kids? There is nothing that comes close to having my kids' hearts and being invited into their story. I wish I could tell you that I have been perfect at this. Learning to ask forgiveness for my stumbling through these uncharted waters has been a regular thing.

My final words to my fellow travelers on the road is to never give up. Even if you find your kids' hearts miles away from you. They are still waiting for your voice, and your presence. I meet dads every week in my travels who think that it is too late to make a difference. It is never too late!

To be a great dad, you need one. Men need models. If they can see it and feel it, they will do it. Not only did Jesus pay the ultimate price with His life to save us, He came to also bring us a new Dad. He came to open our eyes to the same Smile that He lived under.

"You can tell for sure that you are now fully adopted as his own children because God sent the Spirit of his Son into our lives crying out, "Papa! Father!"" (Galatians 4:6, The Message)
 
Happy Fathers Day,
 
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Ed Tandy McGlasson
ETM Ministries Inc




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